Psych Paper…100% May 3, 2010 at 3:55 pm

Theorist Kurt Goldstein was the first to coin the term “self-actualization” when he identified the ultimate motive to realize one’s own potential. This was the dominant motive or driving life force in that all other motives were merely products of it. However the phrase didn’t receive much light until Abraham Maslow later highlighted and expanded this idea in his hierarchy of needs theory, with self-actualization at the top. The term has become quite common in present day psychology with regard to the humanistic approach.

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs consists of five levels leading bottom-to-top. The base level of needs is physiological in nature, and consists of things needs for human survival. Food, water, sex, breathing, and homeostasis are some of the needs located in this level. The next level builds upon the previous one. So long as the physiological needs are met, one may begin meeting needs of safety. These include personal and financial security, health, and general well being. The third level is concerned with love and belonging. This includes family, friendship, sexual intimacy, and social or religious groups. Often times the need for love can outweigh the needs of lower levels. For instance, a person may engage in an intimate relationship with violent person, thus ignoring the obvious need for safety and personal welfare. The fourth level of needs is that of esteem. This consists of self-esteem, confidence, respect from others and personal achievement. The top and final level of needs is self-actualization. This level can only be reached if all lower levels of needs are not only satisfied, but also mastered entirely. This level embodies the realization of one’s individual potential.

To be self-actualized is to be fully independent and free from the power of society’s rules. When the needs of lower levels are satisfied we begin to pursue our destiny or calling in life. It is not possible for one to completely attain one’s full potential, so those who have mastered all other levels of needs are referred to as self-actualizing people. Maslow regards these people as spontaneous, creative, and able to perceive reality accurately without judgment. This acceptance of reality and recognition of one’s own abilities is, to Maslow, the ultimate purpose in life.

Needless to say, these people are extremely rare in the world, approximately two percent of the population. Although this need to become all one may be is innate and natural, a few things get in the way of that. As a humanistic psychologist, Maslow believed there to be nothing of value learned from non-human animals. The lower levels of needs are long standing and have evolved through time, and we can see the drives for food and survival in all life. The higher up we move in the hierarchy of needs, the more fragile the drives become. To conquer these instinctual needs is simply difficult for most, if not all people.

The other barrier for people is the fear of self-knowledge. To become a self-actualizing person, one must exercise a great deal of honesty in regards to oneself. Most people would rather ignore their own shortcomings than look them in the face. On the other hand, many people experience the Jonah complex and fear their own greatness and destiny. Many people, in Maslow’s opinion, fear success as much as failure and prevent themselves from self-actualizing in that way.

I can definitely see the importance of this theory in its time and understand why it is still prevalent today. Maslow, along with all humanistic psychologists, looked at the ideal subject rather than the flawed one. Instead of focusing on the problem Maslow turned his attention toward the solution. Albert Einstein, a perceived self-actualizing figure, was known to treat science in the same way.
The criticism that lies against the theory is also notable. Maslow interviewed only 100 people whom he predetermined to be self-actualizing. This doesn’t appear very thorough or scientific in nature.

However, it was rumored that Maslow intended to pave the way for others to continue his work in a more vigorous manner. There have been adaptation since the 70’s, including 3 more levels of needs not present in Maslow’s original hierarchy. Another criticism that begs to be recognized is that hierarchy itself. Many argue that the needs do not work in static levels building upon one another, but fluctuate and can be satisfied in any order. Regardless, the theory of self-actualization is still a popular concept today, serving a goal for many in the way they live their lives.

When I originally thought about self-actualizing people in society, I ran through the list of wise, creative, influential people of the ages. Deciding upon a present-day figure, I chose Dr. Wayne Dyer. To my surprise, Dr. Dyer was a student of Abraham Maslow. In 1980, Dyer wrote The Sky’s the Limit, which he dedicated to Maslow. It’s should be no surprise that Dyer chose to continue the work of his old professor and bring self-actualization into the 21st century. He’s the author of over 30 books and has appeared on thousands of television and radio shows. He has dedicated his life to helping others realize their own potential and live their lives to the fullest. He lives in the moment, demonstrates acceptance of all people including himself, displays creativity and innovation with his work, and lives in service to all humankind. He also looks at the ideal of human nature rather than the flaw, which coincides with his humanistic roots. In my opinion, Dr. Dyer is a poster boy for self-actualization, not to mention a model for us all.

In Dyer’s latest book, Excuses Begone, he touches on the very essence of the Jonah complex in how we fear our own success. According to his theory, we create excuses to prevent us from attaining our full potential and successfulness. In his book, he invites the reader to become extremely honest about his/her self without judgment. This type of service and guidance to others is a common theme in his work. Not only does he strive to live a fully aware life, he encourages all others to does so as well. It would seem in continuing the work of his previous professor that Dyer has dedicated his life to making that two percent a bit bigger.

My Instructor’s comments:
“Excellent paper, and good choice of self-actualizing model. I didn’t realize Wayne Dyer was a student of Maslow . . . the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. Good work.”

The infection spreads. May 2, 2010 at 12:34 am

Robbie turned. I don’t even know when the fuck he got bit. We only had two encounters in the past week, and we hadn’t seen anything for four days now.

Then this shit. I remember the first time I met Rob. He worked at the Gigabit Computer’s, next door to the cafe I visited twice a week. He sat down next to me ranting about how crazy the rest of the world was, and we were quick friends. How ironic, we had no idea what was in store for our “crazy” world. You’d never think a computer geek could hold his own with a zombie attack, but Robbie was a tough sonofabitch. Now he’s dead.

I suppose it’s a matter of time for the rest of us. Everybody is on edge, especially Tamara. Christ, he almost ripped her throat out when he finally turned. One second we’re sitting there talking, the next he’s red-eyed and blood-thirsty. I nearly killed Tamara when I shot him. The blood was everywhere. Hell, it’s still everywhere. For some reason it doesn’t act like normal blood. Once they turn, the blood coagulates into this pasty, sticky mess that bonds to everything. It’s as if the blood emulates the zombies, just begging to spread.
Why didn’t you say something Robbie? I suppose I wouldn’t either. My hands are still shaking. I’ll be surprised if I last another week.

The Zombie Apocalypse April 26, 2010 at 3:39 pm

By now it’s typical. I mean, everyone saw this coming. The constant shortcuts and back alleys and quick fixes to our society. It was the only outcome that would seem logical. The entire human species, gone in a matter of weeks. Most people’s immune systems couldn’t handle the first outbreak. The few that survived? Picked off by the hoards that scavenge the streets. Parasites. I don’t see how anyone made it out of the cities alive. Fuck, I can’t call this survival. The shitty canned foods. Raiding dead bodies for ammo, weapons, or more food. Constantly checking each other for bite marks. I’m scared shitless to catch a cold for fear they’ll kill me in my sleep. To tell you the truth, I’d do the same. And to think, a flower started it all.

More to come…

What does it mean to be an American April 14, 2010 at 2:06 pm

This was a very short writing response to a question posed by my cross-cultural psych professor. I’ll admit it’s a bit more pessimistic than I usually look at things. But what can I say, I was on a roll.

What does it mean to be an American? America symbolizes freedom. We as a country arose from the ashes of a tyrannous England. We were the heroes. What does it mean now? It means to be rich, fat and happy. It means he who dies with the most toys wins. He who carries the biggest stick rules the playground. We grew too fast for our own good. We care not for world peace, simply world dominance. This “Land of the Free” concept that carried our country to fruition is the very poison that bites our tongue today. We’ve gotten so used to getting our own way, we’ve lost what it means to be compassionate.
In the beginning America represented good triumphing over evil. We were hard-working farmers and tradesmen rebelling against the corrupt tyrant in the hills. These are the stories of glory our children are wooed with in school. But we’ve had too much of a good thing. We grew bigger and bolder, every war, every conflict, every victory made us more resilient to the suggestions of others.
Now here we stand, drowning in 40oz. buckets of soda and Double Whoppers with cheese, blinded by consumerism, and spitting on anyone who doesn’t share the same. Then we wonder why extreme religious groups want to bomb our cities and terrorize our citizens. We’re no longer the beacon of civilization, the light to guide all other countries of the world. We symbolize an insatiable child greedy for immediate satisfaction. We’re just another power-hungry country amidst the lot. Just another shark in the dirty water.

The sound of my drum April 12, 2010 at 1:02 pm

It’s often easy to get lost in our own world, forgetting how we are connected to everything. We march to the beat of our own drum, unique and individual, however separate. I remember a time when I thought this to be the goal of oneself, to define myself apart from others. I concentrated on how my drum looked, how it sounded, how it was received, and what that sound meant. I still come back to this idea, when I feel like I’m not connected with others.
However, this singularity does not create rhythm in the world. If all of us play our drum without regard for the others in the circle there is no synchronicity, no rhythm. Chaotic, unintelligible noise is the sum, and as such, disagreement with each other. A beat can only be created when we play together. We look to someone to take the first step, to lead the intention of the music. As it is created we join in with our own voice. We can choose to play the same beat that is being played; perhaps it is not familiar to us and we learn from it. We can simply listen, if we choose. Or we can play our own beat alongside the original, contributing in our creative way by helping it grow and expand.
In this way, we connect with others in a way more powerful than our drum could ever be on its own.

Illusions – The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah March 10, 2010 at 6:25 pm

My eternal friend, Delene, suggested this book to me.  When I asked her what it was about, she replied “It’s about you…”

Needless to say, I read the Richard Bach novel in a day or two.  A brief 192 pages, and I must say the story hit me a bit more than The Alchemist did.  Amidst the 4-day vacation at Delene’s house in St. Pete, the book fit right it with all the soul searching.

All in all, a good read for those in search of something mind-opening.  Of coarse, I could be wrong.

And more art… March 2, 2010 at 2:25 pm

I haven’t decided if I’m going to sell these yet, however offers are always accepted.  =)

Artwork is up at 2:22 pm

These were finished some time last year, however I found the pics, so enjoy.

The Alchemist February 19, 2010 at 8:31 pm

While walking through the campus bookstore, I caught this title on the shelf.  I had heard many good things about it, so I finally purchased the book and read it.  A short read (only 167 pages) and certainly not as wordy as I like my authors to be.

However, the book definitely holds some light to it.  An obvious “new age” philosophy presented in the novel, but not so drilling as “The Secret” is.  It is simplistic, to the point, and I finished it in a day and a half.  I recommend it if you have the time.

The update February 18, 2010 at 1:31 pm

Just about everything before this post is old writing.  I’ve moved it over from previous blogs and such as I felt these were worthy of survival.  Now, on with the new.